Dating breaking up kids
In all types of relationships there are various sets of problems.
Yeah, there might be some special issues with divorcees. Your initial reaction to the idea of dating a divorced man might simply be - No thanks!
After a date gone wrong, it’s important that neither person walk away feeling dejected.
With the advent of Facebook, it’s so easy to check someone out.
Don’t get upset when she’s around (whether physically or in his thoughts).
Just remind yourself that she is part of his reality that you can’t change.
Being around his kids can be a plus when it gives you the chance to experience what life with children is like – without having to have them yourself!
Now after having had children and spouses, we can’t relocate, our jobs are fixed, the way we parent our kids is set, and there isn’t much flexibility.I do a search, look at our mutual friends and message the ones that I’m closest to with a request for information.If the person isn’t on Facebook, and I was set up through Saw You At Sinai or a shadchan, I start by calling his references.I ask those references for names of other people who may know him (or her).It helps if you have a rabbi or friends who have contacts in the neighborhood he is from.